Now that you have finally decided to have your first psychic reading, it’s time to prepare some questions. You probably already have an area of life in mind that you want to discuss with the psychic reader. But even if you know that you want to ask about career, love, health, or relationships, you might not know how to approach these topics. That is why we have created this guide of good questions to ask a psychic.
Phrasing your questions
You may not know what to expect from a psychic reading. But there are some dos and don’ts of asking questions during a psychic reading:
- If you want to get the answers you seek, you must phrase your questions in a positive way. Negativity might affect your energies and interfere with the reading.
- The questions to ask a psychic should be open-ended. Simply asking a question that requires a “yes” or “no” answer will not give your psychic the chance to share specific details about your situation or any helpful advice.
- Ask for details but try not to be too specific in your questions. Often, psychics receive only bits of information that they need to piece together, so they might not know the exact date, time, or place of an event about to happen.
- Moreover, try to avoid asking the same questions twice in a different manner. Even if you do it unintentionally, it shows that you do not trust your psychic. Try to believe that the readers give you information as they receive it, and that they have your best interest in mind.
Good questions to ask your psychic
When you are writing your list of what questions to ask a psychic, these pointers might give you a good start to set your mind in the right direction.
1. Questions about life
- I seem to have a great life, but I still feel unhappy. Can you tell me why?
- What things can I do to change my mindset?
- Why do I have a feeling of not fitting in?
- What is my purpose in life?
- How can I accept the events happening in my life as they are?
- How can I stop feeling afraid and anxious about my future?
- Where do you think I will be in 10 years?
- Can you tell me something about my past lives?
- What connections to my past lives do you see in my present?
- What signs do I receive from my loved ones who have passed away?
2. Questions about love
- My relationship is not as satisfying as it was before. What can I do to improve it?
- Can you tell me about the energies around my existing relationship?
- What are some things I should do to find my soulmate?
- What can I do to follow the voice of my heart?
- How can I open my heart to others?
- Could you give me advice about my love life?
- What can I do to be happy in my relationships?
- What qualities should I look for in my future partner?
- Why did my previous relationship end?
- What am I meant to learn from my mistakes in past relationships?
- How can I move forward in my love life?
3. Questions about health
- What can I do to have a healthy life?
- I am always feeling tension in my body. Can you tell me why?
- What are the best ways for me to relax my body and mind?
- How can I remove negative thoughts that hinder my healing?
- What affirmations can I use to better my health?
4. Questions about money and career
- How do I know if I have chosen the right career path?
- How can I know if I am on the right track in my career?
- What can the spirit guides advise me about my career?
- What can I do to achieve success at my job?
- I have been working very hard for the past few years. How can I achieve a promotion?
- I am not satisfied with the work I have been doing. What do you see in my future career?
- What can I do to find a job with meaning?
- Can you tell me something about my future financial situation?
- How can I get to know my colleagues better?
5. Questions about family and friends
- What do the spirit guides want me to know about my family?
- What guidance can the spirit guides offer me about my family?
- How can I get back to being myself after a divorce?
- How can I find healing after the passing away of a loved one?
- Can you tell me what my family’s future looks like?
- How can I make my family members feel closer to each other?
- How can I improve the energy in my home environment?
- Who are the true friends in my life?
- What type of people am I the most compatible with?
- How can I help my friends in need?
- What can I do to be closer to my friends?
If you are not sure what to ask
Sometimes, you might be in a situation where you just do not know what questions to ask a psychic. And that is fine. Try to prepare for the psychic reading as best as you can. Write down the details about the crisis or current issues in your life. From there, frame this crisis into related questions. Your psychic can help you revise your questions by reading your energies and seeing what questions need answers.
Before you go, clear your mind
Whether you have already prepared the questions to ask a psychic or you need some guidance at the start of the session, clear your mind before going in. Close your eyes and meditate, or simply do a deep breathing and relaxation exercise. This will help you focus on the present and settle the energies around your being. If you are feeling nervous, keep in mind the reasons why you contacted the psychic. The answers you are seeking are very important. If you stay in the present, you will be more open to your reader’s advice.